Struggle, at certain points, can feel futile. And actions during times such as these can assure victory or preclude it.
Lashing out wildly could make one feel a semblance of control, but this is most certainly a false sensation. Random thrashings only come against an external pressure. Such a reaction is the very definition of helplessness.
But calculation can overcome any obstacle. Taking punishment in the short term can establish position for success in the long term.
Consider the boxer who repeatedly takes a slow, pawing punch to the face without flinching.
A panicked reaction could turn that relatively harmless jab into a disastrous left hook. But if the defensive fighter endures, an opening will eventually present itself. The jab might be frustrating, even humiliating. But it is not, nor will it ever be, a knockout blow.
Patient tolerance of this moderate and temporary discomfort and can provide opportunity for a counterattack.
Over time that jab will slow. The pop will dissipate. The zip will subside. And the opponent's left hand won't snap back into position.
The fighter who has been absorbing punishment steadfastly, without losing resolve, will have the chance to fight back effectively, rather than flailingly.
The slow, plodding jab will leave the opponent's chin uncovered. At this point, rather than abide another strike, the purposeful fighter can step to the side and unleash a solid, straight and decisive right hand.
In order to win, one must fight -- smartly.
